Happy !! gripping Pongal Test match ! Chepauk stadium
C stadium was packed – a boy emerged carrying some juice sachets – shrill loud
voice from top – ‘Appy – anAppy’ [Happy – unhappy] (man having juice happy,
others staring at him not so happy) – the Crowd burst into laughter !!
What was your New Year wish list and how much do you pamper your kids ! – sure, many of us have ‘list of to do’ and that includes ‘many things you want to buy !’ – may be Merc Benz !! or a valuable diamond ring !! - heard of ‘Missing tile syndrome !!’
Happiness is a state of mind - primarily a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy; though some Philosophers often define happiness in terms of living a good life, or flourishing, rather than simply as an emotion. There are simple persons in life, who live life as it is ~ taking things as they come… reads simple, but too difficult to follow !! For many life is full of expectations, it is unending long ‘wishlist’…there are so many things that we desire to have ~ and many a times wish that we have, what others do not have…
Some important parts of life are tied mainly to age, such as schooling, employment and health. Others depend more on what is going on in society and the world. There are bound to be inequalities, more so on the financial front but that has nothing to do with happiness.
Read in a thought provoking book ‘The Geometry of Wealth’ , author Brian Portnoy observes: “Does money buy happiness? The answer to that question can be summarised as Yes, Not really, It depends."
Intuitively none of us like ambiguous answers like this, but here, it successfully illustrates the complexity inherent in the question. After all, what is happiness? Money can definitely alleviate poverty. It can put a roof over your head, food on the table, warmth, clothing and medical support. Once our basic needs are meet, money’s impact on our happiness has progressively less impact. If you’re a CEO on 3000 crore company, a 5 per cent pay rise isn’t going to move the happiness dial for you enormously. The recurring theme of movies seem to be that : ‘rich men are not happy ! ~ poor man are !!; rich men cannot sleep well in luxury beds; poor man, after a hard day’s work can sleep on floor mat !! ~ tinseldom clichés ~ and we hear from them people who make crores, the listeners are those daily wage earners and commoners who struggle to make their ends meet and yet, we believe in ‘rich ain’t happy’.
Regards – S Sampathkumar
17.1.2025.