Heard of AP Hithendran ? ~ ‘Traffic’ is a 2011 Malayalam thriller film based on a
real-life happening in Chennai…….
There are sorrows and
tearful happenings in life…. External appearances are deceptive…. One may never
be able to understand the pain, frustration and suffering of fellow human
beings. Some are made of stern material, strong mind ~ they hide their emotions
and sufferings and mingle with those around….the sadness may be unfathomable ~
and we might hurt those people with our action unintentionally and without
knowing their suffering by being harsh to them. If we understand that ‘life
itself is short’ and we are gifted to be joyous – every little thing would give
us happiness and make us treat those around with more dignity, warmth and
affection.
Never scorn people; nor
ridicule somebody…….. I generally do not write about accidents, loss,
sufferings of people.. we see many road accidents – at
times, we see humans having been injured – life goes on for everybody else –
for the victims and their relatives – life turns lot different. In life, there
may not be logic or reason as to why
some people suffer – even when they apparently do so much good to others and
society !
Recently Chennaiyil Oru Naal (English: A
day in Chennai) was telecast in TV. It was
a remake of Traffic in a hyperlink format ~ a thriller that intertwines
multiple stories around one particular incident, inspired from an actual event
that happened in Chennai. It centered
around the tragic accidental death of a youth, who is brain dead. The parents at the time of extreme sorrow
decide to take him off the ventilator and donate their son's heart ~ but the
recipient is far away in Vellore …..
how it gets transported the 150 odd kilometers in a short time forms the theme. Sad to see and hear…. Imagine the plight of
those who underwent such horrowing time.
In Sept. 2008, tragedy befell on a Doctor
couple, Dr. Ashokan and Dr. Pushpanjali, popular doctors in Thirukazhukundram-
as they lost their beloved son Hithendran, aged 15, in a motor-bike accident. They had earned a good name arising out of
their kindness and helping nature – still – the unbearable tragedy. Quite unfortunately
that day, the boy was not wearing a helmet and was riding a bike – met with a
tragic road accident, sustained grievous head injuries and was moved to Chennai
for treatment. The boy was brain dead with other organs functioning. After battling a couple of days, there was no
improvement – the doctor couple took an extremely courageous decision of donating
all functioning organs of their son including heart, liver, kidney, corneas and
bone marrows to different hospitals in the city. The most important thing is
that heart can not be kept for more than 30 minutes after it has been removed
from a particular body.
A 9 year old girl child suffering from
chronic heart ailment was the chosen recipient – by the graceful decision at
the height of sorrow, Dr Ashokan’s family became the saviour…… still
considering the traffic the movement between those 2 hospitals would take at
least 45 minutes – with great coordination of Police the route was kept clear
and the heart was taken in a very short time…… the recipient child is alive –
the Society must appreciate and thank the great gesture of the Doctor couple. They donated other living organs as well and have made their son [and themselves]
remembered everybody….
There is a very similar sad
incident, this time in Coimbatore ~ read in leading Tamil Newspaper ‘Dinamalar’
of 4th Sept. 2013 [click here to read the paper report titled ‘a Day
in Coimbatore” :A day in Coimbatore
Life was good for the couple of
Marudachalam, a painter and his wife Kala living in Saravanampatti,
Sivanandhapuram in Coimbatore ,
until their son Rajagopal, BCA, working in a software firm was involved in a
tragic road accident. On that fateful day, this BJP party executive went in a
two wheeler for dropping his friend –
collided with a pedestrian – and all three suffered injuries. Unfortunately,
Rajagopal was brain-dead.
Hearing the tragic news of the death, the
parents spoke of the son’s desire to donate his organs. Consequently Sri
Rajagopal’s organs – liver, kidney, eyes were all donated to various persons
which included Ms Nurjahan. The liver reportedly was transported by plane to
Chennai. A strategy code named ‘Operation
Payanam [travel]’ was made in coordination with Traffic Police of Coimbatore,
Doctors and various other authorities. The
liver and heart valves were transported to Peelamedu in ambulance and thence in a special beachcraft 16 seater plane from Coimbatore to Chennai;
one of the livers was taken to Ramnagar hospital; eyes were taken to Sankara
Eye hospital.
The sad father is quoted as stating that
his son had been an active social worker associated with Vivekananda Kendra and
had become an executive in BJP just a week back – he had been a regular blood
donor. The tearful father conveyed that by
doing the organ donation, his son would live even after death and that they
would be able to still see his son in those recipients…………
Extremely sad and pained to read these………
those who help others even at their time of sorrow are indeed noble.
Saluting their spirit – with great
regards
S. Sampathkumar.
4th Sept. 2013.
Just went through your article , nice, surely people will be inspired reading this and my humble request to all those who read this article is, never allow your minor children to use two wheeler and if at all they attain the age of 18 let them use their two wheeler with caution. Let them not forget to wear their Helmet. Organ donation of your loved ones during unfortunate circumstances like my son Hithendran is the only way you can make the person live again and it is a Nobel gesture saving six lives.. My son still lives. Please don't think that "ORGAN DONATION AS GIVING UP PART OF YOURSELF TO KEEP A TOTAL STRANGER ALIVE, IT IS A TOTAL STRANGER GIVING UP ALMOST ALL OF THEMSELVES TO KEEP PART OF YOU ALIVE." Let us support Organ donation Blood donation and Eye donation. regards. Dr.Ashokan. (Hithendran's father)
ReplyDeleteJust went through your article , nice, surely people will be inspired reading this and my humble request to all those who read this article is, never allow your minor children to use two wheeler and if at all they attain the age of 18 let them use their two wheeler with caution. Let them not forget to wear their Helmet. Organ donation of your loved ones during unfortunate circumstances like my son Hithendran is the only way you can make the person live again and it is a Nobel gesture saving six lives.. My son still lives. Please don't think that "ORGAN DONATION AS GIVING UP PART OF YOURSELF TO KEEP A TOTAL STRANGER ALIVE, IT IS A TOTAL STRANGER GIVING UP ALMOST ALL OF THEMSELVES TO KEEP PART OF YOU ALIVE." Let us support Organ donation Blood donation and Eye donation. regards. Dr.Ashokan. (Hithendran's father)
ReplyDeleteRespected Dr Ashokan, Occasioned to see your response only now. Felt greatly moved. You are indeed great. Will love to talk to you Sir. Can you please provide your contact details Sir...
ReplyDeleteDear Mr.Srinivasan Sampathkumar, greetings to you, Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate your interest to contact me, my phone number is 9442547253.
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